IS it Possible to change from being shy and timid to confident, aggressive human being?

March 12th, 2010
  • Now I have been shy most of my life, Right Now till The Age of 26. I feel that I get Pushed around by extroverts a Lot. Since I Dint have the Strength to argue back, I end Up doing things that I normally dint want to do. I argue sometimes, But my arguments are not strong enough to silent those extroverts and end up feeling miserable and weak.
    I just go to my bed than, cover my face with bed sheet and wonder if i would really be able to Push those extroverts of me?
    Is it Possible to DO so?..Please Suggest some remedies
    Just an Little example

    I cant have arguements when i m alone..for e.g.i could not argue with shopkeeper who shouted on me. there was this pack when said one month warantee.. he said that no warrnty since it is very cheap. I just brought the pack near his face and said thats its written over here ..was that an insult?
    he said " EVEN I HAVE READ THAT, but we dont give gurantees since when we send it to the company they dont allow it since it is not reparable..".. it was a cheap item of Rupees 150..but i did not feel like arguing since he shouted..can i change this..please help


  • You cannot change who and what you are. If you're introverted and prefer diplomacy to arguments, that's the way you are. You CAN however learn skills for dealing with others.
    On the other hand, putting the "pack" near the shopkeepers face sounds rather aggressive to me. But since it was cheap in value, was an argument a good idea anyway?
    Here is a good website for learning Assertiveness skills, very helpful:

    http://www.utexas.edu/student/cmhc/bookl...







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